“Who am I?” is a question we ask ourselves often, especially as we look for the world’s definition. Am I defined by my family role – mother, father, daughter, son, married, divorced, widowed, single? Am I defined by my job title – clerk, manager, company president, entrepreneur? Am I defined by my societal role – introvert, extrovert, activist, bystander?
“Who am I?” As I look to the world, the answer can vary with my circumstances, the stages of my life, the sufficiency of my performance and accomplishments, and with the expectations the world has for me. This kind of definition can even extend to who I think I am, or am told I am, in relation to God. Even in that relationship I can become entrapped in performance and expectations. I can hesitate to follow God, thinking I first have to be whole enough, healed enough, sufficient enough in myself. In other words, after I’m “fixed” then God can use me.
How I answer “who am I?” can directly affect whether I believe God and trust that He has purpose for my life, even in my brokenness.
God says I am “fearfully and wonderfully made”, I am one of His wonderful works.
13 For you formed my inward parts;
you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
my soul knows it very well. – Psalm 139: 13-14
God says I am redeemed.
13 He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son,
14 in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. – Colossians 1:13-14
11 But when Christ appeared as a high priest of the good things that have come, then through the greater and more perfect tent
(not made with hands, that is, not of this creation) 12 he entered once for all into the holy places,
not by means of the blood of goats and calves but by means of his own blood, thus securing an eternal redemption. – Hebrews 9:11-12
God says I am chosen.
3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places,
4 even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. – Ephesians 1:3-4
9 But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession,
that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. – 1 Peter 2:9
God says I am alive with new life.
11 So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus. – Romans 6:11
11 If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life
to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you. – Romans 8:11
4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us,
5 even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved – Ephesians 2:4-5
God says I am free.
31 So Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples,
32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” – John 8:31-32
22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God,
the fruit you get leads to sanctification and its end, eternal life.
23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 6:22-23
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. – Galatians 5:1
God says I am loved.
5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts
through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us. -Romans 5:5
35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? 36 As it is written,
“For your sake we are being killed all the day long;
we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.”
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers,
nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation,
will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:35-39
16 By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. – 1 John 3:16
19 We love because he first loved us. – 1 John 4:19
The world cannot tell me who I am. The only true answer to “who am I?” is to seek and believe who God says I am. Then I know who I am and have God’s peace in the answer.